I’m trying my best to love the guy I’m with but the spark isn’t there

I’m trying my best to love the guy I’m with but the spark isn’t there

11/15/2020

DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE the fact I’m trying my best to love the guy I’m with in the way that he loves me, the spark isn’t there.

I’m a gay guy of 23 and my boyfriend is 25. He is perfect – caring, loving and funny, and thinks the world of me.


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I don’t feel the same way though. I wish I did. He constantly says how happy I make him and that he wants to marry me and grow old with me. I’m just not feeling it.

He wants us to get a place together next year and I’m going along with it so that I don’t hurt him, but I can’t help but feel there is a soulmate out there for me and my boyfriend isn’t him.

He’s my first proper lover but the passion we had when we started dating seems to have disappeared.

DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds as if, for you, this relationship has run its course. 

He’s been your first boyfriend but he need not be your last.

It’s hard to end a relationship but the longer it goes on, the more he is going to believe you have a future ahead of you.

You owe it to him to be honest. My e-leaflet Ending A Relationship will help you handle this with the least pain for either of you.

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