I’m trying my best to love the guy I’m with but the spark isn’t there

I’m trying my best to love the guy I’m with but the spark isn’t there


DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE the fact I’m trying my best to love the guy I’m with in the way that he loves me, the spark isn’t there.

I’m a gay guy of 23 and my boyfriend is 25. He is perfect – caring, loving and funny, and thinks the world of me.

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I don’t feel the same way though. I wish I did. He constantly says how happy I make him and that he wants to marry me and grow old with me. I’m just not feeling it.

He wants us to get a place together next year and I’m going along with it so that I don’t hurt him, but I can’t help but feel there is a soulmate out there for me and my boyfriend isn’t him.

He’s my first proper lover but the passion we had when we started dating seems to have disappeared.

DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds as if, for you, this relationship has run its course. 

He’s been your first boyfriend but he need not be your last.

It’s hard to end a relationship but the longer it goes on, the more he is going to believe you have a future ahead of you.

You owe it to him to be honest. My e-leaflet Ending A Relationship will help you handle this with the least pain for either of you.

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