Mates keep teasing me for being a virgin – should I go to a brothel for my first time?

Mates keep teasing me for being a virgin – should I go to a brothel for my first time?


DEAR DEIDRE: I’M considering going to a brothel to lose my virginity.

I’m 23 and have never had a serious girlfriend. I work for a big builder’s yard and the other guys take the mickey out of me for being shy and awkward.

I don’t think I have a problem. But I do find it difficult to talk to girls and to get to that stage with a woman where we might actually have sex.

If I had sex with a prostitute, it might make me less nervous when it happens in normal life.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t be in a race to lose your virginity. It is far better to have sex with someone who is special to you.

Casual sex is not as satisfying emotionally or as fulfilling as with someone you care about.

Try not to focus on getting a girlfriend. The best way to find lasting relationships is to make good friendships. Out of those connections, love often blossoms.

I am sending you my support pack Widening Your Social Scene, which will give you some ideas.

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